Sunday, March 30, 2014

When Facebook tricks us

Every month or so, it seems like theres another new weird facebook 'secret status' thing that goes around. Three hearts, a color, a random sentence about winning the lottery, etc. Its always odd, doesn't make sense, and then if you ask about it, they'll say, its a secret. Or, they give you a status to put as your own, because you made the mistake of commenting on theirs. And what is all of this for? Supposedly cancer awareness. I'm sorry, but unless you've been living under a rock for the past 50 years or so, by the time you get to the age where you can have a facebook, and almost always younger than that, you know what cancer is. 
My question is: whats the point? How is posting some random status, or sending three hearts to five women on your contact list, or taking a picture of you not wearing make up actually helping anyone with cancer? You want to help someone with cancer? Donate your money, your time and your love. Don't post something stupid on facebook. Share a meaningful status on facebook on how you've been inspired/affected by cancer and then get off your butt and actually do something. Go volunteer at a hospital, especially  a childrens hospital.  If you know someone who has cancer, be their friend, and don't be weird about it. Help out the families of the patient with cancer by helping take care of their yard, or babysitting their other children when they're in the hospital. Do something thats actually useful, and don't get mad at me when I choose not to forward your dumb facebook message thats going to "raise awareness." Because when I help someone with cancer, I want to do soemthing that is actually going to help them. So get off your computer and go help. And dont tell facebook about it. 

Here's some ways you can help:

The American Cancer Society Donation page: https://donate.cancer.org/index?don_promo=WebMem 


Some suggestions for how to support a friend/loved one: http://www.cancer.net/coping-and-emotions/communicating-loved-ones/supporting-friend-who-has-cancer (notice there nothing about changing your Facebook status...) 

Volunteer at a hospital: http://www.uch.edu/find-a-job/volunteer/volunteer-opportunities/ (note, this is for University Hospital in Denver, but I'm sure any hospital near you will have volunteer opportunities for you)